on t4t love and other such things
Happy pride month! To celebrate this, I want to tell you about my relationship that, despite often passing as straight to the untrained eye nowadays, is very queer. Brief recounting of events first: I met Lucas when I was a man. When we first got crushes on each other, when we started dating, the whole time we were dating for the first time, actually – we were boyfriends. And it was great to be t4t boys in love. Then we broke up and, although we didn’t know this, since we weren’t talking, both of us had a bit of a gender journey over that half a year. His isn’t mine to tell, but when we started talking about possibly getting back together I was nonbinary and very lost in the gender/sexuality sauce. Eventually, I (very nervously) decided I’d rather be called a girlfriend, even if I’m not really a girl. For a moment, we were in a lesbian relationship, until he realised he was, in fact, a man. Our straight era ensued and has been going ever since. He’s loved me through changing...
